How can I change what is in my nature? If its natural for me to care, how can I stop myself not to.
The thing is I am known to be kind. No bragging included just being truthful. But the downside is, kindness is often abused.
MY being "kind" often leads to my own problems. I am often taken advantage of.
How can I say no without sounding too self-centered?
If I say no, people would readily assume that I am being selfish... But I'm not... But I, too, have my own set of things to do... and other priorities.
Prettytwisted(and confused)chick
